Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Manic Monday
Sunday Sweet- a baby story
On the Friday of the shoot, I get a voicemail about 2 hours before I am scheduled to meet her at the George Bush Library pond, saying that she wasn't feeling well and we would have to cancel. My heart broke, as I knew the belly pictures were important to her, so I called, got her address and my son Andrew and I headed to her house so we could AT LEAST get her belly on 'film' before that wasn't an option and her little man made his debut.
When I arrive at her home, her children were all dressed to match, and she looked lovely is this amazing sheer black lace top that showed off her belly nicely. We headed to her back yard, found a pretty spot in the shade for everyone to sit and started shooting. We shot for about 15 minutes and in that time, she had SEVERAL severe contractions and with each one, I was getting more and more nervous.
We made our way back to the front of the house, I packed up my equipment, and was about to head out when I realized that, inside the house, things were going downhill fast. I didn't know what to do and soon found out that her husband was in town at the grocery store, she had been planning on a water birth, but her midwife was in Austin and she had no real plan for where her kids were going to go for all this, which is completely understandable considering she was a week out from her due date.
At some point, I talked to 0ne of her friends and we made some plan to get the kids to her, but that took a back seat very quickly when I noticed she was in real live labor and there would be no transporting of children, as I was absolutely NOT leaving this stranger in her home to have this baby alone, no matter what!
Then, her water broke. Now, I should mention that this mother-to-be was the absolute calmest, most in control I have EVER seen for someone about to literally give birth on her living room floor. She was on speaker phone with her midwife by this point, and that was probably all we needed to get through this situation, but me being who I am (a mother, yes, but a TEACHER, a PHOTOGRAPHER, not, I repeat NOT a doctor) I called 911 because I needed direction, coaching and support. I think I remember telling the sweet 911 operator "I am about to have to deliver a baby, it is NOT going to wait and I need you to tell me what to do." She had lots of other questions for me first, so I was trying to rack my brain for old episodes of ER, and really wishing I had been a fan of 'Rescue 911' or whatever that show was called... I kept thinking 'boil water, get towels, sheets, I need a shoelace'.
Under strict orders, my son Andrew kept her boys outside, but her 11 yr old daughter stayed in the house with us simply because I had no idea where towels, shoelaces, or anything else would be in the event that they were needed. She was a champ, doing anything and everything we asked her and is really the heroine of this story. We got a small stack of towels between the mom's legs and about 20 seconds after that, what we think was a head appeared, and less than a minute later, a chunky, pink baby boy was in my hands.
Per the 911 operator's instruction (or instinct, I cannot remember which), I untangled the little man from the cord... it wasn't around his neck, just everywhere else, like he had been caught in a spider web. I cleared his mouth with my finger, wiped his eyes, and strategically passed him to his mother, being careful not to put any stress on the cord. We still had a 'placenta to deliver, catch and wrap up for the doctor', Miss 911 tells me, to which I responded (only in my head, I hope) AWESOME, only with very sarcastic undertones.
Luckily, the mom had planned on a home water birth, though the moment she asked me to start gettign her pool ready, I quite sternly told her to give up that dream, because there was no time for me to blow up a pool and fill it with warm water so we could follow her 'birth plan', but she did have the blue and white hospital pads, suction bulb and other necessities on hand, so as 911 was asking me for things, we (11 yr old daughter and I ) were able to go to the birthing box and find them. The mother used the bulb to clear the airways, we got mom to a sitting position and got our little man on her breast within 3 minutes of delivery.
That's when the cavalry arrived. The new daddy got home first, to a huge surprise, then the sheriff appeared, closely followed by the ambulance. As throngs of people started pouring into the little home in the country, I took advantage of the break and unpacked my camera. I was able to capture the still unnamed newborn only minutes old, in his mother's arms, looking around, probably wondering what all the fuss was about. I have so much admiration for this new mommy, who was so happy and content to look her baby over, smiling and talking to him, posing for pictures... In all my life, I have honestly never seen anything like the strength this woman showed.
The last picture I took was of two gloved hands holding clamps, as an 11 yr old girl who demonstrated such maturity and grace under such pressure, cut her new baby brother's umbilical cord. I will never be the same.
So, what did YOU do Friday night?
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Saturday Songbook
And we've only just begun.
Think I'm gonna have a son.
He will be like she and me, as free as a dove,
Conceived in love.
Sun is gonna shine above.
And even though we ain't got money,
I'm so in love with you, honey,
And everything will bring a chain of love.
And in the morning, when I rise,
You bring a tear of joy to my eyes
And tell me everything is gonna be alright.
Seems as though, a month ago, I was Beta-Chi,
Never got high.
Oh, I was a sorry guy.
And now, I smile and face the girl that shares my name.
Now I'm through with the game.
This boy will never be the same.
And even though we ain't got money,
I'm so in love with you, honey,
And everything will bring a chain of love.
And in the morning, when I rise,
You bring a tear of joy to my eyes
And tell me everything is gonna be alright.
Pisces, Virgo rising is a very good sign,
Strong and kind,
And the little boy is mine.
Now I see a family where the once was none.
Now we've just begun.
Yeah, we're gonna fly to the sun.
And even though we ain't got money,
I'm so in love with you, honey,
And everything will bring a chain of love.
And in the morning, when I rise,
You bring a tear of joy to my eyes
And tell me everything is gonna be alright.
Love the girl who holds the world in a paper cup.
Drink it up.
Love her and she'll bring you luck.
And if you find she helps your mind, better take her home.
Don't you live alone.
Try to earn what lovers own.
And even though we ain't got money,
I'm so in love with you, honey,
And everything will bring a chain of love.
And in the morning, when I rise,
You bring a tear of joy to my eyes
And tell me everything is gonna be alright.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Family Friday
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Thursday Thoughts
Think about it... REALLY think about it. Has anyone ever surprised you with a cup of coffee, just when you thought you were going to lose it from lack of caffeine? Or a Sonic drink, perhaps? What about a lunch delivery? An unexpected movie rental? Trinket of jewelry? Candle? Perfume? Spare camera battery? (OK, clearly that last one is only appealing to a few strange people)
Do you do this? I think this goes back to a post I did several weeks ago, where I mentioned that one of my love languages was 'gifts'... what I tried to explain was that it wasn't the gift at all, but rather the thought that someone, somewhere was thinking about you and, not only thinking about you in passing, but took time from their day to do something to make you smile... It is better to give than to receive as we've all heard and while it is really awesome to give, being on the receiving end of an amazing gesture of thoughtfulness can effect someone in ways you can't even imagine. So, off with you all...
Go send your grandmother some of her favorite candy or a framed picture of your kids, run a grilled chicken Caesar to someone who's having a rough day at work, stick an extra dessert in your child's lunch box, deliver a Route 44 vanilla cream Diet Dr.Pepper to your favorite teacher.... go touch a life. It may just make your day, but it may do a whole lot more to the person on the other end... :)
Monday, March 22, 2010
I've Been Tagged!
OK, I had to get creative, because I wanted it to be a personal picture, not a client picture, so this was technically the 10th picture in the first folder I knew had personal pictures in it.
This is the 2009 Candy Cane Fun Run at my school, which is way cool for the kids (they get to run the halls) and is also used as a food drive. Anyway, I took this picture of my teaching partner, Jayanthi, running and HOLDING my son Lucas. When they started out, they were going to be running 'buddies', but apparently Lucas told her he was getting tired (that kid NEVER gets tired) and asked her to carry him. Of course she did it, because she loves him so much. I have no choice but to put him in her class in first grade, for fear of her wrath if he ends up somewhere else :)
Now, I tag Sara White, Sara Wingfield, Shannon, Beth, and Kelly
Tuesday Ten
Manic Monday
Stacey 11:30-6:30
Charly- Self, 6pm, GBL
Monday:
Stacey 8:30-5:30
Ryan soccer practice, 5pm, Sandstone
Tuesday:
Stacey 8:30-5:30
Charly Durham (Reschedule), 6pm, Campus
Andrew soccer practice, 5pm, Sandstone
Wednesday:
Stacey 9:30-6:30
Charly haircut, 5pm, with Morgan
Ryan soccer practice,m 5pm, Rock Prairie
Thursday:
Stacey 9-6
Charly Self (reschedule), 6, GBL
Friday:
Stacey OFF
Saturday
SOCCER
Ryan, 10:15, Rock Prairie
Andrew, 10:30, Veterans Park
Grace, 11:30, Rock Prairie
Saturday, March 20, 2010
Saturday Songbook
Don't Ask Me Why
All the waiters in your grand cafe
leave their tables when you blink. (Ohhhh)
Every dog must have his every day,
every drunk must have his drink.
Don't wait for answers, just take your chances
don't ask me why.
All your life you had to stand in line,
still you're standing on your feet. (Ohhhh)
All your choices made you change your mind,
now your calendar's complete.
Don't wait for answers, just take your chances,
don't ask me why.
Mmmm, You can say the human heart is only make-believe
and I am only fighting fire with fire.
You are still a victim of the accidents you leave,
as sure as I'm a victim of desire.
All the servants in your new hotel
throw their roses at your feet. (Ohhhh)
Fool them all but, baby, I can tell
you're no stranger to the street.
Don't ask for favors, don't talk to strangers,
don't ask me why.
Yesterday, you were an only child,
now your ghosts have gone away.
You can kill them in the classic style,
now you parlez vous francais.
Don't look for answers, you took your chances,
don't ask me why.
Don't ask me why
Friday, March 19, 2010
Family Friday
*this picture of my beauty Grace was taken as a light test at our shoot yesterday... she did a FAB job making baby Kate smile!
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Thursday Thoughts
I am an instant gratification type of gal. If I want it, then I want a LOT of it and I want it NOW, not tomorrow, not in a week, NOW! It's just who I am.
I think this fact makes me a good teacher... or, should I say, makes teaching a good career for me. I get to instantly see children bloom before my eyes.... and it is REALLY almost instant. Also, teaching is never boring. People that seek instant gratification are often bored easily. Teaching is definitely not that! Plus, think about it. Teachers get to take 18-22 new kids...no, scratch that, 18-22 new FAMILIES into their lives every August. They get to know them, teach them, love them, then send them into the world (or in my case, 2nd grade) and then get a whole NEW 18-22 families the next August.... it is ever changing and no two years are the same.... did you hear me? NO TWO YEARS ARE THE SAME!
This is the best job I could have asked for. I was totally led here by God, as I was NEVER the type to set out spending 7 hours a day with other peoples' children for a living (not to mention an additional 10+ hours PLANNING for above mentioned children weekly).
So there. My Thursday Thoughts on teaching :)
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Why are my kids so weird?
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Tuesday Ten
10. headaches
9. a messy house
8. kids fighting with each other
7. it being too cold/ too hot
6. overwhelming laundry
5. no caffine in the house
4. a grumpy 'mister'
3. sticky (ANYTHING sticky- floors, kids, counters, etc)
2. getting in the car to go somewhere and realizing I need gas
1. a bad mood
I am happy to report that I have NONE of these things going on today so I am going to have, like, the best day EVER!
Monday, March 15, 2010
(not so) Manic Monday
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Sunday Sweet- a baby
-- Vincent van Gogh
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Saturday Songbook
I've been lately thinking about my life's time
All the things I've done and how it's been
And I can't help believin' in my own mind
I know I'm gonna hate to see it end
I've seen a lot of sunshine, slept out in the rain
Spent a night or two all on my own
And I've known my lady's pleasures
Had myself some friends
And spent a time or two in my own home
I have to say it now it's been a good life all in all
It's really fine to have a chance to hang around
And lie there by the fire and watch the evenin' tire
Along with friends and my old lady
Sit and pass a pipe around
And talk of poems and prayers and promises
And things that we believe in
How sweet it is to love someone
How right it is to care
How long it's been since yesterday
What about tomorrow
What about our dreams
And all the memories we share
The days they pass so quickly now
The nights are seldom long
And time around me whispers when it's cold
The changes somehow frighten me, still I have to smile
It turns me on to think of growin' old
For though the life's been good to me
There's still so much to do
So many things my mind has never known
I'd like to raise a family, I'd like to sail away
And dance across the mountains on the moon
And I have to say it now it's been a good life all in all
It's really fine to have a chance to hang around
And lie there by the fire and watch the evenin' tire
Along with friends and my old lady
Sit and pass a pipe around
And talk of poems and prayers and promises
And things that we believe in
How sweet it is to love someone
How right it is to care
How long it's been since yesterday
What about tomorrow
What about our dreams
And all the memories we share
Friday, March 12, 2010
Family Friday
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Thursday Thoughts
Sorry for such a lame post- I am getting overwhelmed. I am shooting 5x this week and just booked 3 weddings. NUTS! I guess my Jan- Feb dry spell is O-V-E-R! Praise God!
I am sure my kids are appreciative too... so I'll get my camera out of their faces and into someone else's!
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Let God lead you...
Tuesday Ten
10. BUILD A HOUSE
Yes, I know, technically this is a 'thing,' but I loved every minute of the building process... the picking and the choosing, the visualizing and the actualizing. I once heard a woman say that if she and her husband had to build a house again, she would be divorced. I never understood that. It was a fabulous experience for us, but I'm lucky in that we were always on the same page with everything...
9. SEE MY HUSBAND SEE THE CHRYSLER BUILDING
I know, weird, but that man is absolutely entranced by that particular piece of architecture... why, I do not know, but I SWEAR we have 5,419 pictures of the Chrysler building taken from every possible part of New York City floating around here somewhere. Hey, we all have our things, right?
8. CHER IN CONCERT
I was in awe. She is a legend.. iconic.. almost not real, but there she was. The woman is 64 and I've NEVER looked as good as she does, though it's a wonder half her body didn't melt in that Vegas heat. It was truly an out of body experience for me to see her with my naked eyeballs.
7. WALK UNDER THE EIFFEL TOWER
Of all the places a little girl dreams of visiting, Paris is always #1. And not just Paris, but Paris with the love of your life...strolling hand in hand, drinking coffee at a sidewalk cafe, getting caught in the rain... I did it ALL. My dreams came true...
6. RECEIVE MY LETTER OF ADMISSION TO TEXAS A&M
I can't really put into words what this felt like, but I just know that after years and years of thinking I wouldn't amount to much, then getting that letter and finally realizing that someone thought I could do it... it was liberating.
5. HEAR 20,000 PEOPLE SING 'PIANO MAN'
"It's 5 o'clock on a Saturday...." Just the man, his piano, and 20,000 voices. It was a moment frozen in time... something my mind will never forget.
4. HOLD MY NEWBORN BABY FOR THE FIRST TIME
I wish I could go back and truly appreciate this will all my senses; feeling smooth, chubby arms and legs and feathery soft hair, hearing those little sucking sounds, grunts and groans, looking into the eyes of something your body created, the smell of powdery sweet skin mixed with milk...
3. GRADUATE
Graduation, the event, wasn't all that special... it was more the 4 1/2 year roller coaster college was for me had come to an end and I was victorious. It was the first significant thing I'd done and the feeling of accomplishment was something I had never felt before.
2. BE A NEWLYWED
I wish I had been more mature, I wish we'd had more money, I wish we'd been smarter with the money we did have, I wish we could have stopped and seized every single moment we had when we were just responsible for ourselves. I would love to relive that, only knowing what I do now...
1. WALK INTO THE HILTON ON THAT JULY DAY FOR TRAINING WITH BEST BUY
I sat down across the table from a man named Stacey Stagg. That day, my life changed forever.
Monday, March 8, 2010
Manic Monday
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Sunday Sweet- The Baby
Today, I am going to roll cars with Lucas...
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Carnival- Lucas won a MUG!
Saturday Songbook
He sat down in his overalls and asked me
''You waitin' on a woman?''
I nodded yeah and said, ''How 'bout you?''
He said, ''Son since nineteen fifty-two I've been
Waitin' on a woman.''
When I picked her up for our first date
I told her I'd be there at eight
And she came down the stairs at eight-thirty
She said, ''I'm sorry that I took so long
Didn't like a thing that I tried on.''
But let me tell you son she sure looked pretty
Yeah, she'll take her time but I don't mind
Waitin' on a woman.
He said, ''The wedding took a year to plan
You talk about an anxious man, I was nervous
Waitin' on a woman.''
And then he nudged my arm like old men do
And said, ''I'll say this about the honeymoon, it was worth it
Waitin' on a woman.''
And I don't guess we've been anywhere
She hasn't made us late I swear
Sometimes she does it just 'cause she can do it
Boy it's just a fact of life
It'll be the same with your young wife
Might as well go on and get used to it
She'll take her time 'cause you don't mind
Waitin' on a woman.
I've read somewhere statistics show
The man's always the first to go
And that makes sense 'cause I know she won't be ready
So when it finally comes my time
And I get to the other side
I'll find myself a bench, if they've got any
I hope she takes her time, 'cause I don't mind
Waitin' on a woman.
Honey, take your time, cause I don't mind
Waitin' on a woman...
Friday, March 5, 2010
Family Friday- Grace
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Thursday Thoughts
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
What you may not know.....
Ok, so it's small and a poor quality picture, but it is a hairbow made from scraps.... it is fabulous and will soon the all the rage among both young and old... at least, that would be great! I know a couple of women starting a business and I would LOVE to be able to contribute to their inventory with this lovely bobble.... wish me luck- I might post the final result... depends.
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Tuesday Ten
I'm not going to lie, I watch a lot of tv, but I'm smart about it... for instance, I watch NOTHING live. If you have spent millions on a commercial specifically targeting my age demographic, then you've wasted your money... I DVR everything, watch when I have time, delete over half of what I record, usually fast forward through parts I think will be more interesting at 60x speed and there you have it- I've just watched an evening of tv in under 20 minutes. For fun, here's a flashback for you... this is what my mom was watching while she was hugely pregnant with me :
1. Laverne & Shirley ABC
2. Happy Days ABC
3. Three's Company ABC
4. 60 Minutes CBS
5. Charlie's Angels ABC
6. All in the Family CBS
7. Little House on the Prairie NBC
8. Alice CBS
9. M*A*S*H CBS
10. One Day at a Time CBS
Happy Birthday Dr. Seuss!
Monday, March 1, 2010
Sailed off in a wooden shoe---
Sailed on a river of crystal light,
Into a sea of dew.
"Where are you going, and what do you wish?"
The old moon asked the three.
"We have come to fish for the herring fish
That live in this beautiful sea;
Nets of silver and gold have we!"
Said Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.
The old moon laughed and sang a song,
As they rocked in the wooden shoe,
And the wind that sped them all night long
Ruffled the waves of dew.
The little stars were the herring fish
That lived in that beautiful sea---
"Now cast your nets wherever you wish---
Never afeard are we";
So cried the stars to the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.
All night long their nets they threw
To the stars in the twinkling foam---
Then down from the skies came the wooden shoe,
Bringing the fishermen home;
'T was all so pretty a sail it seemed
As if it could not be,
And some folks thought 't was a dream they 'd dreamed
Of sailing that beautiful sea---
But I shall name you the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.
Wynken and Blynken are two little eyes,
And Nod is a little head,
And the wooden shoe that sailed the skies
Is a wee one's trundle-bed.
So shut your eyes while mother sings
Of wonderful sights that be,
And you shall see the beautiful things
As you rock in the misty sea,
Where the old shoe rocked the fishermen three:
Wynken,
Blynken,
And Nod.
Manic Monday
Ryan's soccer practice- 5:00-6:00 Sandstone
Stacey 8:30-5:00
Andrew's soccer practice- 4:45-6:00 Sandstone
Grace's soccer practice- 5:15-6:15 Sandstone
Wednesday-
Stacey 11:30-8:30
Ryan's soccer practice- 5:00-6:00 SWV Athletic complex
Dinner: garden salad, grilled cheese, progresso soup, steamed veggies
Thursday-
Stacey 8:30-5:15
Andrew's soccer practice- 4:45-6:00 Sandstone
Grace's soccer practice- 5:15-6:15 Sandstone
Friday-
Stacey- OFF
Saturday-
Ryan soccer game 9:00am SWV Athletic Complex
Grace soccer game 10:15am SWV Athletic Complex
Andrew soccer 10:30 Veteran's Park
Pebble Creek Carnival 11:00-4:00